Weekend Blog Follower Caravan 9
March 13, 2011 in B, Chakai, Coy, Lucas, Mama, marriage, Memes, Motherhood, My Life, Weekend Blog Follower Caravan
It’s my very first time to join the weekend blog caravan and I joined right on time because this week’s theme involves self introduction and I will always jump to an opportunity to introduce myself to new friends and remind old ones of why they like me so much. LOL.
Okay, so here goes. My full name is Nadezna Joanne D. Fallarme. Nadezna is a Russian word meaning hope. It’s pronounced with a Z and not with an S. I don’t use that name because it irks me when people say NadeSna. I also don’t like it when people cut it short and call me DEZ or NAD, that’s not my name, so please don’t call me that.
My nickname is ANE, taken from my second name Joanne. 3 letters only, easy to remember, easy to spell, easy to pronounce. I have always been known as ANE at home and only used Nadezna in elementary school, I lived next door to the school head of the school I transferred to in high school, so when I enrolled in that school everyone called me by my nickname. So please call me Ane. Just Ane.Â
I love having my picture taken, you can say that I am a bit of a cam whore, although I am not particularly photogenic. Eye bags and dark circles are my best friends and I know I probably look like a panda or a raccoon, but I honestly can’t imagine myself not having them. I am vain, yes, but only to a certain extent. I am also very straight-forward, I don’t sugar coat things but I always make it a point to say what I mean in the nicest of ways especially if it’s not a good truth, I like to call it as it is. Sometimes people think I am being mean, when in fact, I am just being honest, I guess it’s true what they say, not everyone can handle the truth and not anyone wants to hear it. I don’t like to lie, because when you do, you need to remember things, and I have a very bad memory, so if I lie, I will be caught, so why lie? Right? I can keep a secret and you can rest assure that when I know your secret, I will take it to the grave.
My parents separated when I was only 5 and my sister was 3, I guess which is why I grew up kind of fast and didn’t really have a chance at a normal childhood, I felt I needed to grow up because I had to take care of my sister, which I did and now, she takes care of me. We were raised by our maternal grand mother and we are both grandma’s girls all the way through.
I am married to a man who is 11 years older than I am, his name is Rommel, but he is just B to me. No, not B as in Baby or B as in Babe, but B as in Biskwit. For the benefit of my foreigner friends: Biskwit is a tagalog word for Crackers or Cookies. He writes better than I do and he shows it off through his blogs, Switching On The Sun and W.O.R.D.S. Being a wife is not for everyone. I am blessed to have an understanding husband who loves me despite my mood swings and drama-queen moments. I’m glad I married my best friend.
We are blessed with 2 children. 9 year old Chakai and 3 year old Lucas. I used to tag Chakai along in school when I was in college, I had her when I was 19 and I was in 3rd year college by the time I was 21, she was well behaved and my teachers always saw her as the youngest student in class because it was as if she was paying attention to the lectures. I wonder if her good grades now has anything to do with the time she spent in college when she was only 2. Chakai and Lucas are the complete opposite of each other. I have always been a hands on mom and I am grateful that I was able to take care of my children on my own and had the luxury to be able to do it. It’s hard work though and in as much as I love being a mom, I will not recommend it to anyone. LOL. Motherhood definitely isn’t for everyone.
I love to write, which is why I started blogging. Writing was an outlet for me, when I was younger, it was my diary that kept me sane. My mom’s friend encouraged me to blog and so I did, I haven’t formally thanked her, so now I will. Thank you tita Cherry for encouraging me to blog!
This particular blog is about my life in general and how I manage to somehow stay try to stay gorgeous despite the stressful duties of being a wife and a mom. I blog about entertainment, fashion and anything about celebrities on my entertainment blog, A Network of Entertainment. I also blog about my experiences with the online employment system and how I make money online over at Confessions of a Not-So-Willing Workaholic.
That’s about all I can think of to say right now. If you want to get to know me better, then all you have to do is come back for more.
Shout out to Mommy Rubz and the rest of Pinay Mommies Community for welcoming me into their wonderful online group.


Thank You for gracing me with your presence
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Nice yo know you girl..have followed you hope you do the same..
Nice to meet you Ane! Awww that's cool when you were able to tag your 2 year old along in school! I guess she's now a genius! ^_^
Following you through wbfc!
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Mars @ The Life Encounters
hahaha yes, it's pretty amazing how I managed to do that..
I hope she's the cool genius type though..
thanks for the visit and will visit you back..
Mommy Ane, nice meeting you. I am also Anne. LOL!
By the way: My Weekend Caravan! Hope to see you! I am one of your followers na din!
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Hi Anne! hahaha same name, different spellings, still cool though..
Thanks for the follow, will follow you back too!
hi ane,
you're a good writer, great mom and a loving wife to rommel. it's so funny coz i remember having a convo with your mom years back that we knew for sure rommel would be bad news for you. well, we were wrong. buti na lang.
good thing i encouraged you to blog. at least many more people will get to discover and enjoy your stories.
btw, i saw your mom the other week. she's looking good. sabi nya muka na raw akong losyang. naninibago daw sya. i showed her my new place and we're planning to go to baguio this april. sana matuloy na.=)
old follower here…
LOL! I know may konting grudge pa din si Rommel kay Mom and sa friends nya kasi he was pre-maturely judged daw..
hahaha Mom did mention she saw you recently, sinabi nya un tita? hahaha mas losyang kaya itsura nya, haggard na stressed out na hindi maintindihan.. hahaha
Sana matuloy na nga, can't wait!
Aha ikaw pala cherry ang nagimpluwensya kay anne…
Actually cherry is an old bloggign friend…unfortunately we havent met pa…
Hi sis ,
Visiting from WBFC # 9 Entry No. 7
You know what we have the same predicament, I got preggy before I could finish college so I along tagged along my ishi….
And also, II think we are long lost sister, coz im kinda mis understand, akala nila tariray, prangka lang…pag may problema ako sa isang tao, I tell it to her staright in her face..,kaysa mag back fight kaya akala tariray ako…
Keep on blogging and inspiring others thru your stories..I know other Mom’s in similar situation will draw their strength from your experiences..
nadaan at nakibasa.
I am already a follower thru GFC.
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True Mommy, it's better to be straight-forward other than lie to a person, sometimes people just can't handle it and instead of looking at it as a constructive criticism, they take it negatively and choose to hate you. hay nako, tao nga naman..
Thanks for visiting!
Hi! I like how you call him Biskwit, by the way. hehe
I will visit your other blogs as well..if my internet connection permits
am here through WBFC http://pepperrific.com/2011/03/weekend-blog-follo…
Hi Pepper!
Thanks! I didn't want to call him the same thing everyone calls their husband or boyfriend, so I came up with Biskwit..
hehe Thanks for the visit, I will visit back soon!
Hello Ane! Wow I can't imagine having a 2 year old tagging along in school but it must work as your daughter has good grades…
Anyway, please visit my WBFC-Everything Alabama and I am your newest blog follower.
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Hi Lulu!
Thanks for visiting and for following, will do the same..
It was a challenge bringing her to school, but it was also awesome because I stood out in the crowd and my teachers knew who I was so that was a plus..
hi mommy ane! very well said! and it’s so nice to know more about you…i was so amazed at how you managed studying while tagging along your tot! wow! i could not probably do that as my son is so curious and could not stay seated for a long time… ehehehe… kudos to you mommy!
here are my other blogs, hope you can drop by too:
Pink Memoirs
Hands Full of Life
These and Those
Hi Pinx!
I probably won't be able to do that with my son now! Good thing my daughter was very well behaved for a 2 year old..
Thanks for the visit!
I thoroughly enjoyed reading your post
glad to meet you here
followed you also
Mine is just a short entry. Don't forget to follow me please
Have a great week!
Hi! Of course will follow and visit back..
Hi Ane! Thanks for the visit and comment on my blog, followed you already via GFC!
See you more around!
Jheng
Thanks for following Jheng!
Hi Ane! That's a very unique name you have. And wow, it is wonderful to know women who have babies and went to school at the same time. How you can manage that, is amazing to know. You're right, not everyone can do that. It's a tough juggle.
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Good luck and wish you well always Ane and to your beautiful family as well!
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Hey Ane…
Nice to meet you..lol!!
It's always good to know who is behind all this screen talking eh…
for me although I dont cam whore as much as before and I dont publish my pictures.. i think pple still get a sense of who I am from my blogging.. or at least I hope so.. lol!!
Anyway.. i will get back to designing your other blog now.. i had to stop.. coz I had some urgent request..
Cheerio
LJ
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Hahaha! Hey LJ!
You're so very mysterious! But I hope to see your beautiful face next year when I come visit! I hope by then I can afford it! LOL
hey Ane!
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My Stories
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Hi Caroline!
mwahaha!! i admit myself too quite a camwhore!! xDxD next time we can snap pictures together-gether!! :p
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I wish Caroline!
Here's to hoping I can go to Malaysia next year! 
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oh! ur B also has blogs! i hopped to there and yea so sweet of ur B! can see pictures of Chakai and Lucas there too!! so sweeeet!
My Stories
My recent post MM – What Is Right by Big Bang
haha Yeah Caroline, but he's more a literary writer than a blogger..
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HI nadz.. naks.. your name rocks.. love to hear it.. grabe prolific writer naman neto.. hhaha.. full details.. di talaga to madelete hahaha.. thanks sissy for dropping by… all the best…
LOL! Please please please don't call me that! hahaha
hi mommy! glad to know u…followe u thru WBFC. here's my entry momsicle
Hi there Mommy Bev, thanks for following, will follow and visit back!
Hi, Ane! You have a very colorful life and it's amazing how you have kept sane and gorgeous at the same time despite all that you've experienced. My life's pretty boring compared to yours
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Hi Olga!:) I so love your name, if I can change my name, Olga will be one of my top choices..
Yes indeed, my life is so very colorful, I don't think anyone's life is boring, it's just a matter of how you look at it..
will visit back..
Good day Mommy! You have a really nice and unique name. Thanks for dropping by at my blog. Followed you here too!
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Thanks you Thess!
Glad you had the time to visit back..
I appreciate it!
Hi Ane…ang galing, you have kins sa blogging! Sa buong angkan ko, maternal or paternal, ako lang ata ang blogger.
Nice to know you!
WBFC9 #51.
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Hehe, I am not related to Tita Cherry a.k.a. Domestic Cherry, she is my mom's dear friend..
My hubby is really the writer between us..
However, I have encouraged my sister to blog as well..
hehe Thanks for dropping by C5!
Hi Ane! I am your new follower from WBFC! nice to know you…:-)
Hi Ane! i am a new follower here through WBFC…nice to know you
Hi Seth thanks for following back!
nice to know you more ane, galing mo naman pala…
Raketer Mama
From wala to okay
i will definitely come back for more of your posts! now following you! what an adorable family you have!
caroline/ turknoy
Thanks Caroline!
hi tukayo, lovely to meet you here at PMC. I cant seem to find o=your GFC (i think i went blind na), anyways just subscribed to your site na lang thru my email baronann(at)gmail(dot)com
Hope you visit my entry here, leave some sweets and follow me too. Have a great week!
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Glad to know you Ane. I really thought this blog was owned by American blogger of some sort because of the well written English. I have seen this layout through LJ's portfolio.
Thanks to mommy rubz for the initiative of putting up this caravan bloghop and brilliant idea about the introduction chuva. It was meeting you Ane.
Hi Ane!
I enjoyed reading your post. Beware pala ang maka tawag sayo ng Nad or Dez or worse, NadeSna.
I think it' great that you were able to balance young motherhood and schooling and do it with grace. Motherhood definitely ain't easy and it takes a certain strength to to get thru it.
I am #62 {the last!} on this week’s WBFC and my post can be found
HERE.
Will be updating my blogroll to link you up. Hope you can do the same for me!
Cheers!
~May~
Nshima Servings
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Hi May!
LOL yes, my name is a touchy subject, I don't like it when people mis pronounce it..
Thanks, will surely link back..
Will visit you back soon too!
nice to meet you mommy!
see you around!
The Mommy Journey
Hi Chris!
Thanks for following, will visit and follow you too..
Was here to visit you from WBFC!
Hope to see you around!
i've visited your blog before and i thought you were a from malaysia or something. oh well. visiting from WBFC. i'm bambie and like you, i hate it when people call me BAMBI. i'm not a deer. it's BAMBIE, soft at the end and not terse like BAMBI. oh…i'm blabbering. anyhoot, it was nice to get to know you better through this post.
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Hi Bambie!
Oh yeah? I guess it's because I have a lot of Malaysian friends..
Thanks for visiting, will visit back.. 
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im a follower. nice to meet you
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Thanks for following back!
it is so nice to meet you Ane! following you…
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Hi Peachkins, thanks for dropping by!
Hi Ane,
Nice to meet you. I agree motherhood isn't for everyone it takes a lot of super patience, love, devotion and decision.. It is the highest paid career I've found (LOL).. Followed you
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Hi SuperMommyJem!
thanks for visiting and following back..
For me naman it is the lowest paying job I have found financially speaking haha but it is also rewarding in other ways..
nice to know you Ane:) first glance at your photo, no one would think that you’re a mom parang college student lang:) You got a very wonderful family and I also checked your hubby’s blogs and he has a knack on writing too like you:)
I’m your new follower..as much as I want to follow you at networked blog, I just can’t bec. I’ve reached the limit na daw..gonna unfollow others na di ko naman kilala and be back here to follow you in NB:)
Have a nice day!
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Thanks Gene! Nice to meet you too..
Thanks for checking out his blogs..
nice to know you sis
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nice to know you mommy.. here my share http://www.dorothysvineyard.info/2011/03/13/weeke…
followed you on gfc
Hi Mommy Dharlz! followed you and read your post already..
Hi Ane! It's nice to meet you here through WBFC.. it's cool that both you and your Hubby are bloggers.. sa akin, he's only my avid reader..hehehe!… i'm following you through GFC and networked blogs now.
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hi!
thanks for dropping by..
Hubby is the writer, I am a blogger..
hehe
You have a beautiful name, "Hope", i wish i have more of that. I'm so happy to know you through this WBC. Thanks for dropping on my blog and hope to see you again soon!
Hi Ria, if you need more Hope, you can come here often because I have lots to share..
Hi Ane!
I really like the look of your blog
You've already dropped by my entry so Thanks much. Mine was 'Health and Lifestyle', now it's H&L mag. I can't imagine bringing my Yana to the university but I used to bring my younger sister (which was a year old then) to my Grade 5 classes bec we had no made then and my mom couldn't bring her to work. LOL.
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nice to know you mommy ane!i have to agree, people think motherhood is all about picture-perfect bonding moments with your baby but it really a lot of hard work + is not really for everyone!
will be learning more of you + your beautiful family in your future posts then..i envy you, i never get to meet my grandmothers on both sides so i'll call my mom's aunts my grandmothers.
doing my late rounds of wbfc entries^^
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Nice to meet you ate! Hope to see you soon. ^^
Hi Phoebe!
nice meeting you ane!
Late visiting from WBFC..
Thanks for following!
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better late than never Shengkay..
Hello ane! how are u? Cookie here. Followed your blog. Hope you'll follow this blog of mine. tnx.
Here's my entry: http://chroniclesofcookie.com/2011/03/weekend-blo…
Hi Cookie!
I'm good!
I'm on my way to your newest blog..
wow going on your 11th yr is just amazing. you have a beautiful family. see you around
followed your blog and here's mine too: http://www.imasworld.com/2011/03/weekend-blog-fol…
wow! i can so relate! haha!!! I had my alyssa too at 19 and she goes to college when she was only 2. =) but then, we did great, right? we're still here, mothering our kids… motherhood doesn't have specific age… we may be teenagers then, but I believe we were responsible enough. apir!
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Welcome Ane and nice to meet you
visiting and following you thru WBFC…hope you can follow me back http://www.lyzalane.info/2011/03/wbfc9-its-melyza…
See you around!
HI Ane, I'm visting from WBfc 9. That's true being a mother is not an easy task.
See you around!
Thanks for visiting..
Hi Ane, sorry for the late visit. I’m in a mood for feeling like in a mid-life crisis, LOL! It’s nice to know that we have a lot in common. Lalo na with the prangka part. I have been told often that I’m being mean and mapanglait but in truth I’m just saying what I see. And I do say it in a not so mean way. Ang galing naman, you finished your schooling kahit na may bb kang kasama. I don’t think I can handle that. At ikaw lang ang nagsabi na motherhood is not for everyone which I agree whole heartedly. I love my kid so much but sometimes I feel that it’s too much. I still need my freedom and need for silence from time to time. Well look at that, I’m babbling again, sorry.
Thanks pala for visiting my blog and commenting. Hope to know more about you in your blogs and your Twitter. May GoodReads ka ba? Hahaha!
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better late than never!!
followed you already..
Hope you could visit my site too!!
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hi mommy! following you via WBFC/GFC~ please follow back @ http://cyanidebeauty.blogspot.com
see you around ^_^