Friday Frustrations: Scumbags*

Sunday, February 7, 2010

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Scumbags. The world is full of them and that just irks the hell out of me.

If you know me, then you know that I tend to become very protective of my friends and family. I would literally take a bullet for any of them, that's how much I love my friends and my family.

Recently, I learned that my friend broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years because she found out that he was cheating on her and that she has had enough of the bullshit he was giving her. I also found out that within those 2 years that they were together, she had to endure emotional abuse from him and she didn't tell anybody, not her family members, who thought the guy was an angel, and not even us. Her reason? She didn't want us to think ill of him because she loved him and she thought that it would be better that way because whenever he said something offensive to her, he'd feel sorry and make up for it anyway. It was a cycle though, whenever they'd get into a fight, he'd say nasty things to demean her and hurt her, and then after a while he'd feel bad and apologize. We all know that sorry doesn't fix it. The words have been said and damage has been done. I felt so bad about all the nasty things he had said to her and she made me feel like I wanted to run over the fucking guy. That's not the only thing she had to endure during those 2 years, she also had to deal with a psycho ex girlfriend who accused her of stealing "her" man, when the fact is they have broken up long before my friend came into the picture. The nerve! My friend's family adored this guy and thought that he's actually "the one" for her, until recently, when he finally crossed the line and said nasty things about my friend's family. What an asshole, he should have known better than to say anything bad about her family, that was it for my friend. He could have hurt her all he wanted and she would've just taken it. My friend was finally pushed over the edge when this guy said things about her family and she finally let us all know what an asshole this fucking guy was. I commend my friend for having the courage to leave the guy, I know she probably still loves him, it's not that easy to not love a person, after all, we don't get to choose how to feel for a person, I know she's hurt but at least she got out in time. I hope she doesn't give up on love though.

Another friend of mine is going through an annulment, divorce is not yet legal in our country and the next best thing is annulment. She found out that her husband of 14 years have been cheating on her, not once, not twice, but dozens of times before, with different women, of all age and sizes, and he almost got away with it too, if not for a few people who got the courage to tell on him.

Then there's this friend of mine who recently found out that her husband was having an affair and was about to leave her, but they are working things out now, and I really hope that they do get to work things out because I don't want to see my friend broken.

Scumbags walk the earth and their numbers grow everyday. I hope to God Lucas doesn't turn out to be a scumbag when he grows up, because I don't care how old he is, I am going to whoop his ass when he plays around with other people's emotions.

Where the fuck do these people get the balls to go walk around and act like they are God's gift to women? Why do they fucking cheat? If they are so unhappy with the woman they're with, then why don't they just have the decency to just be frank about it and break it off? Why do they resort to cheating? What is it about cheating and these men? I hope to God my husband doesn't cheat on me, I will just die, if he does cheat on me, I hope to God that I never find out, because I swear, I will die.

It's so frustrating that there isn't a written law against cheating. Scumbags should be sentenced to die the most horrible death possible. I'm thinking castration.